"Whoever said money can't buy happiness simply didn't know where to go shopping." - Bo Derek
Today, my bank account told me I had exactly $124.91 left, & FYI, this is my only bank account. I ought to be worried, but I have seen worse days (-_-") Many years ago, there used to be a 4-figured sum sitting comfortably inside until a spur of vanity had me walking through the doors of Andrew Tan's clinic to get blepharoplasty. Then, I worked to raise a sum of money for a Thailand trip, & subsequently wiped the rest out while backpacking in Europe (& I still owe my mum $, help!). Also, my one and only source of income is unpredictable, so when can money start pouring in?
People say money is the root of all evil and money can't, in essence, buy happiness. But I beg to differ. Call me materialistic, but as far as I remember, money had made me a very happy person indeed. I forgot the countless times I had heated debates with friends regarding this issue. Some of my friends who was into the romanticism notion told me that money can't buy love...so I argued that money = shopping = material love = love; money = popularity = attention = admiration = love; money = presents for your loved ones = appreciation from your loved ones = love; money = friends = friendship = love...& so on. Then they said, Yeah, but it can't buy you TRUE love. But, what might be your definition of true love may not be mine, nor another person's.
To me, there is nothing that can't be bought by money except time (sad!). However, if you were to ask me this question 10 years ago, that answer would include both time and love. In Mel's dictionary.com, lovey dovey love does not exist in this world, & is forever even worth mentioning? Call me a cynic, but in this day and age, money talks, and "no money, no talk". To emphasize more:
1) Money could buy you holidays. Wanderlust? No problem, book yourself a ticket with Mastercard. Feeling adventurous? No problem, buy yourself 6 months off work to travel around Europe, States, Asia etc. Jaded?No problem, a weekend spa trip to rejuvenate yourself. Holiday with a loved one? Money can buy you both a trip. For myself, money could buy me 4 months off for a road trip in a caravan around the States. Woo Hoo! (reality check please, Miss Leong.)
2) Money could buy you friends. Birthdays? Money allows you buy a perfect present your friend would love. Financial woes? Money could help you aid a friend in need. Gatherings? Money enables you guys to engage in fun activities. Broke? You don't even feel like going out, so tell me, how do you build friendships?
3) Money could buy you attention and fame. Just look at Paris Hilton.
4) Money could buy you materialism. The new Iphone? Check. MacBook Air? Check. Diamonds? Check. Fancy cars? Check. Mansion with 20 rooms, a bowling alley and an ice-cream fountain? Check check check.
5) Money could buy you beauty which later translates into confidence. Just look at the Koreans with their plastic surgery, & a certain blogger whose name starts with the D.
6) Finally, money could buy you love. With money, you look more attractive than you really are. That is why there are unions like Mariah & Nick, Madonna & Jesus, Tiger & Elin + his countless women, Michael & Catherine, Trump &Melania...and the list goes on. Though love that is bought are often deemed as superficial, there's a glimmer of chance where the love can turn genuine, as the fundamental need for security (a roof over your head, money to sustain yourself) is already being met and you can have so much more. + Don't forget, love can grow. However, if you continually have financial woes, love will most certainly be lost.
So, money cannot buy you happiness? For crying out loud!
Thus, my stand is that money can buy you almost anything including happiness... Materialistic much? You can say so but I need money to survive & money to dream my big dreams...& until something or someone convincing wins me over, my one true love is still $.
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FLY AWAY FROM HERE
by Aerosmith
Gotta find a way
Yeah, I can't wait another day
And nothin' gonna change
If we stay around here
Gotta do what it takes
Cause it's all in our hands
We all make mistakes, yeah
But it's never to late to start again
Take another breath
And say another prayer
Then fly away from here
Anywhere
Yeah, I don't care
We'll just fly away from here
Our hopes and dreams are out there somewhere
Won't let time pass us by
We'll just fly
If this life
Isn't hard enough
It ain't no nevermind
You got me by your side
And anytime you want
Yeah, we can catch a train and find a better place
Yeah, cause we won't have nothin' or no one keep gettin' us down
Maybe you and I
Could pack our bags and hit the sky
Then fly away from here
Anywhere
Yeah, I don't care
We'll just fly away from here
Our hopes and dreams are out there somewhere
Won't let time pass us by
We'll just fly
Didn't you see your blue sky now
You could have a better ride now
Open your eyes
Cause no one here can better or stop us
They can try but we won't let them
No way
Maybe you and I
Could pack our bags and say goodbye
Then fly away from here
Anywhere
Honey, I don't care
We'll just fly away from here
Our hope and dreams are out there somewhere
Fly away from here
Yeah, anywhere
Honey, I don't, I don't, I don't care
We'll just fly away
W A N D E R L U S T
Fly Away with Me
Argentina
Brazil
Canada
Egypt
Greece
Hungary
Ireland
Mexico
Poland
Portugal
Switzerland
United States
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The Mandatory
Melissa a.k.a MeL
Melissa Leong

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Dreamer. Fighter. Sleeper. Wanderer. Idealist. Realist. Imperfect Human Being.
R A N D O M
because I so totally am
ONE Owning a cafe/beach pub is my biggest dream TWO Wanderlustic soul. A life without geographical transition would depress me tremendously. THREE A Happy Drunk FOUR Hate activities that require sun exposure. So I exercise only at evenings/nights. FIVE Tend to keep my room tidy when I live alone but it's extremely untidy when I'm living with someone. SIX Can do a mean swing. The playground sort. Watch me fly. SEVEN 12-hour sleep days are ideal for me EIGHT Do not leave me with a pair of scissors, I'll start snipping hairs NINE Really wanna travel to N.America, S.America, Russia and Africa TEN Closet escapist ELEVEN Hypersensitive to body language (to a point of reading too much) TWELVE Don't be surprised to see me smiling to myself, I often conjure laughable scenarios in my head THIRTEEN The word "fuck" is like "shit" & "damn" to me. Is it even vulgar? FOURTEEN Eats hash browns with maple syrup, fries with ice-cream & curry sauce with everything (you should follow me to Mc D sometimes) FIFTEEN
Cooks awesome. I should cook more. But I don't. Except when living alone.
LUSTS & MUSTS
because enough ain't always good enough
-10kg
$ for more trips
No money, no honey.
10:47 PM - Monday, January 25, 2010